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My four year relationship ended because he was a cheating lying drunk on the 2nd of May 2007. It was a no communication break up which is what I wanted. He was with the girl he cheated on me with and to my knowledge he still is with her, but I hear he is pretty miserable. The last time I saw or spoke to him was at the bar the night before Thanksgiving, and that was like “Hey, how ya doing” and that was it. Well flashforward to August 4th 2008 and he text messaged me “I Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday” then it that dumb little verizon animation thing winking. What the heck was his motive here? I do not want him back in my life, he is tragic. However, the text has got me thinking WTF?
What do i do now that my boyfriend and i are broken up?
Posted by: | Commentswe've went out for almost three months. we broke up because he couldnt change who he really was. he would spend every night going out to smoke and get drunk while i sit at home, trying to study for my college classes. he says that he wants to concentrate more on school and work but i think he's lying because when ur in college, there is no possible way for you to do well in class while staying out late into the night and wake up in the late afternoon. it sucks because i worked so hard for this relationship and now that he wants to end it, makes me feel angry and resentful. it makes me angry that he isnt willing to work it out anymore when its me who has put in the most effort. i lied to my parents so i can see him more often and i'v been in verbal fights with my family because they knew he had no potential. I feel like a wasted prescious energy trying to defend him when in the end it didn work out. what should i do to heal my broken heart? (btw all my friends are out of town 4 college)
Has anyone ever broken up with you because of religious differences?
Posted by: | CommentsI am a Nichiren Buddhist and my ex boyfriend is a Seven Day Adventist. We've known eachother for 3 yrs and dated for a few months. We planned on getting married soon, however, he couldn't get past the fact that I didn't want to get married in a church. I wasn't expecting him to get married in my "institution"; I preferred some place neutral, that we could have agreed upon. But wait there's more….he wanted us to attend church as a family on Saturdays, knowing I'm a Buddhist. I coudn't see myself compromising my beliefs just to be with someone. Unfortunately he couldn't see my views and was being very selfish and not willing to compromise. He broke up with me and everyday I find myself thinking about the situation. The funny thing is, we barely speak, and if we do speak, I'm usually the one reaching out to him to see how he's doing. When I ask him if he told his family about us, his response is, some what. I feel like he's ashamed to tell his family the truth because he knows hes wrong
I met his family and they love me, (they know I'm a buddhist, they are Christian) according to him, they ask about me all the time and he has yet to tell them exactly what happened. He told me he told them a little bit. I was supposed to attend his family function the day after we broke up and he told them I couldn't make it when they asked for me. I feel like he can't tell them the reason why we broke up.
I am so happy this happened now because we were actually going to get the rings the day we broke up and we were moving from NY to Charlotte. What I learned, stay true to yourself and make you have a strong sense of self before being in a relationship with someone else.
and a week to two weeks later you find out they did more than what you knew when you broke up. What do you do and how do you handle or deal with it. Like you believe it was one or two people your ex cheated with and you come to find out it was 10 but youve already ended the relationship
more of the wrong doing after the relationship is over. I am saying like to tell that there were more people your lover cheated with than the one or two that you already know about.