What does it mean when an ex girlfriend invites you out to dinner?
ByOn Tuesday my ex girlfriend (she broke up with me stating that we just weren’t right for each other) asked me if I wanted to get some dinner with her on Wednesday. I said sure and she said she would call me on Wednesday and we would go from there. On Wednesday she calls me right when she knows I get back into town (4:50). I didn’t feel my phone vibrate so I missed the call. She didn’t leave a message and my phone never said I missed the call. I waited until 7pm then checked my recent calls and saw that she did call. I called her back and left a message. She called me 10 minutes later and said she ate like at 5:30 and figured I was busy or something. She only tried once and never tried to call again. So then she said maybe we could get dinner on Thursday. It’s been 2 months since we broke up and we’ve only hung out once since then. I still love her with all my heart and want to get back together with her, but I just don’t know how she feels. By the way, we are both 24 yrs old and dated for 14 months. Why do you think she would invite me to dinner, but then not really care if we went to dinner or not? In her defense she has been really busy moving into a new house she built and this weekend she has to go to a friend’s wedding out of state. What can I do or say to try and reconcile with her and show her she’s the only girl I want in my life?














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May 29th, 2009 at 9:07 am
She may have been trying to reconcile (whether as lovers or friends), and when you didn’t call her back, she figured you weren’t interested.
Show her she’s wrong. Make specific plans for Thursday; set a place and time, so if you don’t hear your phone again, she won’t think you aren’t interested.
And I agree with the other poster: if you want to get back together, make sure that the problem of why you broke up is fixed, or it won’t work out.