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How do I comfort my friend who has just broken up with her long term boyfriend?
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My friend has been with this guy for over a decade and besides being his gf, she has also been helping him in his career and to build up his business. He cheated on her once but she took him back. Now he has cheated on her a second time and this time he wants out. My friend is heartbroken and feels totally lost now. Besides being a listening ear, is there anything else I can do to help?
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May 10th, 2009 at 5:53 pm
Be her friend! She is really vulnerable right now and probably feels great rejection and shame. Do not make a move on her! If you are only a friend, be there to let her tell you how she hurts. Girls need to do this. If you want to be more than a friend (you're a guy, right?) do the same thing. Do not push her into a relationship with you during this time of weakness. It will only backfire and cause a lot more pain for both of you.