Apr
12
How do I maintain a realtionship with my girls after a divorce?
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I am getting a divorce here in the near future I have to daughter that I love with all my heart and soul. I am in the military and my soon to be X is planning to move to colorado. I will try my hardest to get stationed there, but being in the military nothing is never guaranteed. My question is how can I maintain a realitionship with my girls and to let them know that I love them and don’t like being away from them. Will someone give me an ideas.
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April 12th, 2009 at 6:54 pm
First I just wanted to say thank you so much for answering my question. It helped me feel better!
Now, I think there are a lot of ways that can help. It will be hard, and you will be sad, but you cannot let that ruin you. You really just need to stay in contact with her as much as you can! Send her stuff…ALL THE TIME! Im a girl, and I love suprises. I don’t know how old your daughter is, but Im 20, and still love them! A nice card or letter every once in a while will help, and to make it even better add something in there like a little gift. It dosn’t have to be much, but something. Like, get her a 20.00 gift card to her favorite store, or send her an I-tunes card or something. Make sure you try to call her almost every single day…even if you do not have anything to say or talk about. Tell her how much you miss her, and how much you love her! Take some leave for a few days every once in a while and go and visit her! Even buy plane tickets and fly her down or up to see you as well! Being concerned, and being involved will help you out a lot. Im not trying to say to “bribe” her by sending her gifts, but I think you get the picture.